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The eighth child of the Jackson family, Jackson made his professional debut in 1964 with his elder brothers JackieTitoJermaine, and Marlon as a member of the Jackson 5. Jackson began his solo career in 1971 while at Motown Records, and rose to solo stardom with his fifth studio album Off the Wall (1979) during the peak of the disco era. By the early 1980s, Jackson became a dominant figure in popular music. His music videos, including those for “Beat It“, “Billie Jean“, and “Thriller” from his sixth studio album Thriller (1982), are credited with breaking racial barriers and transforming the medium into an art form and promotional tool. Jackson’s prominence propelled him and the television channel MTV into cultural phenomenons of 1980s pop culture. At the 1984 Grammy AwardsThriller won a record-breaking eight Grammy Awards, including Album of the Year. Jackson continued to innovate with videos on the global best-selling albums Bad (1987), Dangerous (1991) and HIStory: Past, Present and Future, Book I (1995). With songs such as “Man in the Mirror“, “Black or White“, “Heal the World“, “Earth Song” and “They Don’t Care About Us“, Jackson’s later music emphasized racial integrationenvironmentalism and fighting against prejudice and injustice.

Starting in the late 1980s, Jackson became a figure of controversy and speculation due to his changing appearancerelationships, behavior and lifestyle. In 1993, he was accused of sexually abusing the child of a family friend. The lawsuit was settled out of court, and Jackson was not indicted. In 2005, he was tried and acquitted of further child sexual abuse allegations and several other charges. In 2009, while preparing for a series of comeback concerts, This Is ItJackson died from an overdose of sedatives administered by his personal physician, Conrad Murray. Fans around the world expressed their grief, and Jackson’s public memorial service was broadcast live. In August 2009, the Los Angeles County Coroner ruled that Jackson’s death was a homicide, and Murray was charged with involuntary manslaughter in February 2010. Nine years later, the documentary Leaving Neverland, which detailed posthumous allegations of child sexual abuse, led to a media backlash against Jackson.

Jackson is one of the best selling music artist of all time, with estimated sales of over 350 million records worldwide.Thriller is the best selling album of all time, with estimated sales of 66 million copies worldwide. In addition, the remix album blood on the dance Floor: Historyin the mix (1997) is the best-selling remix album of all time. Bad was the first album to produce five billboard Hot 100 number-one singles. Jackson had 13 billboard hot 100number one single, more than any other male artist in the Hot 100 era, and was also the first artist to have a top ten single in the Billboard Hot 100 in five different decades. The most awarded artist in the history of popular music, he received 13 Grammy awards, the Grammy legend and Grammy life time awards, 6 Brit awards, a Golden Globe award , and 39 Guinness book of records, including the “Most Successful Entertainer of All Time”. His other achievements include an induction into the Rock and Roll all of fame twice and being the only recording artist to have been inducted into the Dance hall fame. In 2016, his estate earned $825 million, the highest yearly amount for a celebrity ever recorded by Forbes. 


Do you spend a lot of time sitting? Did you know that the muscles help to stabilize the spine, as the muscles of the abdomen and lower back are more relaxed. This increases the pressure on the spinal discs and the result is uncomfortable back pain. But poor diet can also contribute to these pains appear.

A study published in 2014 in the Asian Spine Journal found that about 31% of women and 25% of men who suffered from back pain also had gastrointestinal complaints, such as abdominal pain or food intolerance. The link between nutrition and back pain has to do with inflammation: foods high in fat and sugar are a trigger of inflammation throughout the body, including the lower back.

If this is your case, try your best to cut out sugar, fat and caffeine, and switch processed foods to whole foods whenever possible. See list of foods that fight inflammation:

It contains the omega-3 amino acid and is known to treat a large number of health problems. If you don’t like and eat fish, try taking a good quality vitamin supplement. Try integrating fish oil or fish with “good fat” into your meals twice a week to enjoy its benefits.


Love is…
Love is when you feels so deeply for someone that you want to make them happy.
Love is staying up to the wee hours of the morning just so you can talk to or fall asleep on the phone with.
Love is hurting when they hurt, feel joy when they are happy.
Love is wanting the best for them and giving them your best.
Love is not measure by the things they give but the care in their hearts that you can feel like a beating drum.
Love is you for me!!! I love you with all that I am.


You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect ”you aren’t either”, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.

You know I don’t love any one but you. You shouldn’t mind because some one else loved me.


Darling I want you to know that since the day we met I’ve fallen deeply in love with you. There are no words to express the gratitude I feel in my heart that you came into my life, and how you make every day so special. You are my life, my heart, my soul. You are my bestbfriend, my one true love, my one and only. I love you more today than I didyesterday, and I’ll love you more tomorrow than I do today.

Loving you is the only thing that makes life worth living. Day by day, my love for you becomes overwhelming, and I can’t handle it when I don’t see or even talk to you every day. A day without you in my life is like a day without sunshine, a day without food, or a day without air. I need you when I’m cold to keep me warm; I need you in the rain to keep me dry; I need you in my life to keep me happy. You make me feel wonderful. You give me strength when I just can’t carry on and I truly treasure that. Every moment spent together is another one of my dreams coming true.

I apologize straight from the heart for ignoring you whenever you make an attempt to make me feel better after our pointless arguments. I know I overreact a lot, and I’m sorry. Im ashamed of how I treat you and I’m sorry I’ve been so moody lately. I’m afraid I’ll say something to make you forget the feelings you have for me when I mention your past too much and bring up stupid things. I’m worried you wont want me anymore. I know I can make you …

Senator Abaribe is a Sponsors of IPOB Terrorist, I urged the Senate to Stop Paying Him…SHETTIMA YERIMA

The president of Arewa youths forum SHETTIMA YERIMA has call on the Senate to stop paying senator ENYINNAYA ABARIBE Because he is a sponsor of IPOB a body proscribed by NIGERIA GOVERNMENT

He always claim that IPOB are peaceful when that’s not true. He also talk bad against FULANI HERDSMEN who are only carrying guns to defend themselves.

Do you know how many times villagers have killed these HERDSMEN to prompt them to carry gun. In Nigeria, there is freedom of movement but many states in the south are attacking these herders which is the reason they have arm

I personally have cattle and I give them gun to defend my cattle against thiefs.

I think it’s time the Senate stop paying ABABIRIBE now that it’s clear he is the number one sponsor of the terrorist organization called IPOB”.

Senator Abaribe is a Sponsors of IPOB Terrorist, I urged the Senate to Stop Paying Him… SHETTIMA YERIMA

The president of Arewa youths forum SHETTIMA YERIMA has call on the Senate to stop paying senator ENYINNAYA ABARIBE Because he is a sponsor of IPOB a body proscribed by NIGERIA GOVERNMENT

We have seen this Senator or channel tv severally defending IPOB and he stood SURETY for NNAMDI KANU. This is nothing but a treasonable offense to side a terrorist organization.

I Deeply Adore you..

You’re the reason I live.

You’re a lovely rose 🥀in full bloom. But even if it withers, you’re still the most beautiful woman for me. I love❣️ you.

You are the flowers of plants, you give flamboyance to my dark world.

You are in my mind every second of the day. But if you want, you can be in my house now.


You don’t have to change for someone to love you. If they really love you, they’ll accept you just as you are. If their love is true they will understand you…. 😌


You don’t have to be handsome or beautiful to have someone care for you. Sometimes being simple is enough to have someone to admire you.


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You are the missing piece of my life’s puzzle. Now that I have you, my life feels so complete☺️. I feel you in soul, my heart, my body. Just one smile😌 from you makes my body sing, my mind free, and my soul happy. I love❣️ you my King 💋💞💞💋

You’re always on my mind, day and night when I think of you, all feels so right need to have you, need to hold you and tell you that I love you. My dear, I don’t want to see us apart this separation just tears away my heart I miss you, oh, I really miss you will need you more and more each day I know I cannot live without you I miss you, more than words can say.

You know I will do anything to make you smile.. I love ❤️you like a fat kid love 💞💞 the mothers breast 💋💋

You are the beat in my heart ❤️,
The music in my head and the tears in my eyes. You are my whole universe

You are so easy to be with and so hard to be without for only one second.

You’re my angel with a pure heart. My queen with a heart 💓 of gold 😆😁

You are my everything, I don’t know what I’ll do without you. I dream about you at night🌌, and I wake up smiling. I love💞 you angel. Thank you for being my everything 😁😘😘..

Will you smile for me if I ask you to? Will you come to me if I call you and when I need you? Will you understand if i’m unable to express? Will you say you miss me too if i say I MISS YOU?❤️❤️❤️


Popular alleged Internet fraudster, popularly known as Ray Hushpuppi has been arrested by the officials of the International Police, Interpol.
The Dubai-based socialite was arrested alongside his friend, Woodberry in Dubai.

It was confirmed that “Hush Puppy was arrested yesterday”. News is going round all social media that he was arrested by Interpol for stealing “$35 million”  that was meant to be for Corona ventilators. However this has not been confirmed by Interpol OR Hish Puppi’s


Hello honey, my love💕 life is missing you but you are running. You’re are running and I’m calling. My love💞 is chasing you but you are running. My heart is calling , and my love❤️ is calling for real. Is just for you to see what your love❤️ is doing to me. Your love❣️ got me so mesmerized.💋💋

I’m like a cold🔥 fire and you’re a fire. There is fire in my heart♥️ and you are the fire 🔥in my heart. And you keep burning in my heart ❤️and soul and keep me moving.
I feel like I’m flying without wings and running and my legs doesn’t seem to touch the ground.😌😌😘

True Love ❣️

I’m so precious and sweet.💋💋
Because I give true love♥️ and true love♥️ is what I get from others. All that come to me
Is true love♥️and all that I give out is true love❤️..

I’m real and everything about me is real.💋💋
My love irs real and all my intentions are real 💯.
Tho everything is real ❣️but yet I’m not perfect.💋💋


Can I be your mirror so you can look at me all the time and see yourself through me because you are the one living in me and I can’t feel myself anymore .

❤️My heart is singing for you.
My heart❤️ is listening and you are calling.


It was confirmed that “Hush Puppy was arrested yesterday”. News is going round all social media that he was arrested by Interpol for stealing “$35 million” that was meant to be for Corona ventilators. However this has not been confirmed by Interpol OR Hish Puppi’s


Popular alleged Internet fraudster, popularly known as Ray Hushpuppi has been arrested by the officials of the International Police, Interpol.
The Dubai-based socialite was arrested alongside his friend, Woodberry in Dubai.

An eyewitnesses in Dubai said Hushpuppi and his friend where ‘allegedly surrounded by the International police and FBI on the grounds of being fraud suspects.


In life, you meet many people. Some you remember, some just passing through, and some who leaves an impression 😌on you. You, my love❤️, left more than just an impression, you left me your heart and in turn you have mine. I promise to guard your heart with the love💖 and care that you deserve! Please do the same with mine😍😍.

Your love❣️feels so good😍 And that’s what takes me high Higher than I’ve been before. Your love ❣️ it keeps me alive. Thougt I should let you know That your touch it means so much when I’m always thinking of you baby 💋💋..


Your Deep Kiss 💋Is Sweeter Than Cherries.
Your ❤️Love Is More Beautiful Than
A Bed Of Roses🥀🌷💐. Your Touch Is
Stronger Than A Mountain🌁. Your
Voice Is As Calming As The Morning
Birds Singing. I Am So Glad You
Have Chosen Me To Spend
Your Life Forever With Me❣️❣️💕💞..I Owe You My Love Forever and Always 💋💋💋 My Charming 😍😍

You seem to capture my 😌❤️mind all the time. There is never a moment when I don’t think about you 😍or miss your presence my charming 😍. Your love ❣️takes over my thinking and my body all the time. I feel so weak helplessly in love with you baby 😍😍💕💕

Family Fights Over An Inherited House After Their Father Passed Away In IJEBU ODE Nigeria……

AKUBU a father of 12 children shares his properties a year before he passed away just to “AVOID FIGHTING AND KILLING AFTER HIS DEATH”.

His Third son swear to kill all his siblings over an incompleted building in “IJEBU ODE”. After the death of their father “MR AKUBU”.

I witnessed and took record of this by myself…

The Love Of My Life💝

I smile☺️😘 when I see the sight 😍of the sun each morning not because it’s a bright🌞 day, but because it reminds me of how love glows in my heart 💝and I always wish i was your blanket. I wish i was your bed, i wish i was your pillow underneath your head,i wanna b around you,i wanna hold you tight, & b the lucky person who kisses💋💋 you goodnight 🌃👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

REVIEW; California

California has 280 state parks “a spectacular collection of landscapes from Sierra Nevada mountains to redwood forests to broad sandy beaches” within those, 13,000 campsites at 105 parks with camping for tents, RVs and in cabins. The parks opening for camping on Friday have 1,667 campsites.

Nearly three months after California closed the campgrounds at all of its state parks due to the coronavirus outbreak, campgrounds at 27 state parks are scheduled to reopen Friday and have begun taking reservations.

We’re pleased that state parks will begin to provide additional recreational opportunities to the public said by Gloria Sandoval, deputy director of the California Department of Parks and Recreation.

State parks officials say they hope to open more campgrounds at more parks in the coming weeks.

In Southern California, along beaches from Santa Barbara to San Diego County, although several are around the Lake Tahoe Area and two are in the Greater Bay Area Little Basin, a former Hewlett-Packard retreat center near Big Basin Redwoods State Park in Santa Cruz County and Half Moon Bay State Beach on the San Mateo County Coast.

Summer campground reservations in California are in great demand, and book up quickly, particularly along the coast.

To reserve a site, go to

A Man Who Became More Popular After His Death

Floyd grew up in “Huston” Texas. He excelled in football and played other sports throughout high school and college. A blue-collar worker, Floyd was also an early contributor to the development of Houston’s “hip hop” scene  and a mentor who was active in his religious community. Later, he faced several arrests for theft and drug possession; in 2009, he made a ” plea deal” for an armed robbery, serving four years in prison.

In 2014, he moved to the Minneapolis, Minnesota area, finding work both as  Events of his arrest, death, and the actions of the officers have led to international “Black Lives Matters”protests , calls for police reform, and legislation to address perceived racial inequalities.
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You stay more amazing than ever before. All I wish for and will keep hoping for is to spend the rest of my life with you. Your love❣️ keeps me in comfort and happiness, all through the time we have been together.Every day, I need your love. I don’t wish to spend any day without it. More than you imagine,❣️ I love you with my whole heart, and I am not making a mistake about it.😍😍


I’ve always hoped for bliss, happiness😄, and joy. That’s why I am after you for only you can introduce those things to my world… 😍😍I have an unexplainable passion for you my darling, every day you remain unique and special to me because you make every of my dream a reality not just a fairy tale 💋💋💋💋kiss to you 😉


You may not be perfect but you certainly you are the one for me.. You are my pillar of strength who has always guided me through the best and the worst.
When i met you for the first time, I could net deny there is God. Because you’re a perfect creature. I feel my soul kissing your soul,It felt as if we already knew each other and we meant to be together

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When I say I love you. I really mean it


You may not be perfect but you certainly you are the one for me. You are my pillar of strength who has always guided me through the best and the worst. When i met you for the first time, I could not deny there is God. Because you’re a perfect creature. I feel my soul kissing your soul, It felt as if we already knew each other and we are meant to be together.


VALUE; I have never been scared of letting go of anything until you came into my life. The thought of a day without you kills me slowly. Never will i let go of this new found addiction. I love you with all i have….

Conversation starter

IF THERE’S ONE thing that can ruin a first date and ensure a woman’s first impression of you is a bad one, it’s crappy conversation. You need ice breakers, light-hearted queries, questions that provoke banter, laughter, and thought, as well as questions that dig a bit deeper and go beyond the superficial. To save you from endless awkward silences, we’ve compiled 50 first date conversation starters that do all of these things. Plus, they’re backed by professionals who know what they’re talking about.

Meet the experts: Sarah Jones is a relationship expert, and founder and CEO of coaching website Introverted Alpha, and Sameera Sullivan is the CEO of Lasting Connections, an elite matchmaking service. Read on. Your future dates depend on it.

1. If you could hop on a plane right now, where would you go?

Who doesn’t love to travel? Hermits, that’s who. If she hates planes, road trips, or has no desire to leave her hometown ever, that’s a good indicator of her ambitions and desires (or lackthereof). Otherwise, this question will excite her and you’ll learn what’s most appealing to her, Jones says. It promotes a good back-and-forth between the two of you.

2. What’s something I wouldn’t guess about you?

“This is a great ice-breaker because it’s a little mischievous and flirtatious,” Jones says. “It’s a sign you’d like to know her beyond surface level, while still giving her the freedom to reveal what she wants to share—and doesn’t.”

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3. What are you most passionate about?

This question lets you get a sense of what she feels strongly about and whether she’s spirited and heartfelt. It’s also the perfect way to gauge whether her level of passion is compatible with yours, Jones says.

4. What’s your dream job?

“This is a great query because a dream job merges meaning, passion, and lifestyle,” Jones explains. Better yet, her reason will be incredibly telling. Is it the money, the impact, the enjoyment? Each of these explanations reveals something about her character.

5. What sort of things make you laugh out loud?

If things get a bit awkward or serious, divert to a more carefree topic. Everyone loves to laugh, and talking about the things that make you both fall into a fit—cheesy pickup lines, dad jokes, a particular YouTube flick—gets the conversation flowing… and both of you laughing. Lots of laughter on a first date is a great sign, Jones says.

6. If work was no longer an option and you had plenty of money, what would you do all day?

This conversation starter can bring a light, playful, untethered feeling into your mix of questions, Jones says. “It’s also fascinating to hear anyone’s answer,” she adds. If she’d watch every television series ever created, and you’re an active guy who can’t stand to be indoors, well, that shows you might not be super compatible.

7. What do you like most about living here?

This question rocks whether you’re new to a city or you’ve lived there for years. “You get to talk about local places she likes, see what you have in common, bond over the people, culture, and why you moved to the area in the first place,” Jones says. Better yet: “Many second date ideas can be born from this question.”

8. What’s been the most significant or best year of your life so far?

If you want the conversation to become a bit reflective, thoughtful, and meaningful, this is a great fall-back. “Not only do you get to hear about her life story, but the snippet that’s most meaningful and important to her,” Jones explains.

9. What’s one thing you did as a kid that you miss most today?

She’ll get a little reminiscent with this conversation starter. It’s playful. And who knows, maybe you went to the same camp or vacation spot each summer. “It’s fun to see what you might have had in common as kids,” Jones says.

10. Who do you talk to the most?

You’ll learn about the people closest to her in life. Good: You can see if she has a tight bond with her parents or siblings. Bad: You can see if she’s still hung up on an ex. “The five people we’re around the most, shape us the most; her relationship to any one of her closest friends and family members tell you a lot about her,” Jones says

11. How did you spend your day?

Waiting to be seated at your table or for your waiter to arrive? Break the ice with a simple, straight-forward question like this. “You get a glimpse into her day, her job responsibilities, how she deals with stress, her energy level, tone, and how she spends her time,” Jones says. Those small details and what she chooses to focus on—whether good or bad—clue you in on her personality big time.

12. Would you go on a cross-country road trip?

This may seem a bit odd and specific, but how she likes to travel is sometimes even more telling than where she likes to travel. Does she only stay in five-star resorts? Is she into sustainable locales? Is she a bargain traveler? Is she up for camping and RVing? All these alternatives offer “insight into her lifestyle, taste, and knowledge about other cultures.” Sullivan says.

13. In a new city, what attraction do you have to visit first?

Some say you never truly know someone until you travel with them. Odds are you won’t be traveling on a first date, but this question (paired with the above) can offer a ton of clues about her persona. “This opens the door for conversation relating to history, religious perspectives, art, and culture,” Sullivan says. If she’s crazy about museums and monuments, you can infer she’s a history buff—or better yet, ask her if she’s a history buff. Let one question lead to another.

14. What are 5 things you want to accomplish before you die?

You’ll get major insight on her goals and priorities in life. You can gauge whether she’s philanthropic, an outdoor buff with a killer bucket list, and everything in between.

15. What is your favorite dish to cook?

“Learn about her culinary skills, what food she likes, if she’s into healthy cooking, and has any favorite restaurants, Sullivan says. Food is always a safe topic of conversation—and an endless one, too.

16. What are your favorite sports?

“If sports are big in your life, this will take you into a ton of subtopics,” Sullivan says. Ask what sports she’s interested in, what teams she roots for, and if she played sports in college. Depending on her answer, you can see whether you’re up for some healthy competition or standing behind the same teams. And if she doesn’t care, then you can decide whether it’s a slight turn off or a deal breaker.

17. What are some of your favorite TV shows?

Her interests are reflected in what she likes to watch on a daily basis. Does she only watch educational shows? Is she all about news or talk shows? Is she an absolute reality show junkie? You’ll also find out how much time she spends on the couch.

18. What did you do last weekend?

If you’re going to be compatible with a woman, you need to have common habits and hobbies. Ask her how she spends her free time! From this, you get a sense of whether she enjoys relaxing or letting loose when she’s away from work.

19. What kind of books do you like to read?

Is she on the road to self-improvement and solely reads to better herself and her career, or does she read for pleasure? Get into a conversation about what inspires her. “This is a good way to know what her intellectual interests and passions are,” Sullivan says.

20. Who has been the most influential person in your life?

“Instead of asking how close she is with her family, ask: ‘Who’s the most influential person in your life?’” Sullivan says. “This will tell you more about her family dynamics and close relationships she has with friends.”

21. Do you still keep in touch with childhood friends?

Unless she moved around a lot as a kid (this should spark questions, too), asking whether she still talks to friends from childhood will reveal how she values relationships and loyalty.

22. If you were stranded on an island and could take three things with you, what would they be?

Catching her off guard is a good thing so long as your intentions are innocent and playful. Despite the quirkiness of this question, you’ll find out what’s most valuable to her and the significance of those items.

23. What’s your favorite animal?

Light-hearted questions like this one can stir up memories from her childhood. It’ll also let you know if she’s a pet lover. It may seem silly, but if she hates dogs and your Husky is part of the family, or she’s got two cats and you’re allergic, things might not work out.

24. What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

Is she a thrill-seeker or a free spirit? You’ll find out if she’s been running with bulls or scaled a mountain. “This is a great question to see how flexible she is,” Sullivan explains. You can see if your personalities and interests jive, too.

25. What is your biggest pet peeve?

Ask about the little things that drive her nuts. “Obviously you’ll get an insight on her temperament,” Sullivan says. But you’ll also be able to reign in any bad habits that might prevent you from nabbing a second date.

26. What’s your all-time favorite movie?

“Her answer will reveal whether she has a dark, goofy, nerdy, romantic, sappy, or quirky side,” Sullivan says. Plus, you won’t be blind-sided if you make a movie date and you’re stuck sitting through a rom-com.

27. How do you like to spend your mornings?

It might seem super particular, but her morning routine is hugely revealing. Does she wake up, get ready, and rush to work with minutes to spare? Does she wake up, lounge around, read a newspaper, then get ready for work? Or does she meditate, go for a six-mile run, shower, and make a gourmet breakfast before heading out the door? These scenarios are snapshots of three incredibly different people and personality types.

28. How do you like to spend your nights?

Like the previous question, this one clues you in on how she spends most of her time and whether you’ll enjoy the same activities. You may love going out to bars and clubs for karaoke on a Saturday night while she’d rather binge-watch the latest Netflix series. You’ll see early on whether you’ll clash.

29. What are your quirks?

Maybe she leaves the TV on when she sleeps or likes to eat ice cream with a fork. This gives you a chance to see if she has any quirks that are endearing… or a turn off.

30. What’s you all-time favorite song/artist/band/genre?

“Asking about her favorite song, band, or artist of course tells you about her taste in music,” Sullivan says. But you can branch off and find out what her first concert was, who she’s dying to go see, and if the cards work in your favor, these bits of information can turn into a phenomenal future date or surprise.

31. What are you most afraid of?

This question can go the trivial or serious route. Try both. See what childhood fear she still has: Maybe she’s terrified of spiders, darkness, and basements. And ask what she’s most afraid of in life: Is she afraid of failing in her job, never getting the opportunity to travel, mending a particular relationship? You’ll see a vulnerable side of her without being too forward.

32. Tell me about your family.

Yes, this is a popular first-date question, but for good reason. Go ahead and ask the basic questions about how many siblings she has and how big her extended family is and let the answers lead to deeper, more meaningful ones. It shows you care and are invested in learning who she is from her roots and where she came from.

33. Who’s your best friend?

This may or may not be the same person she spends the most time with, but both people are obviously key to who she is. If her best friend is someone she grew up with or someone she’s close with because of a particular incidence (good or bad), ask her about it. This is someone she cherishes in life, so it’s a sweet gesture to show a genuine interest in that person, too.

34. Are there misconceptions about yourself you wish people wouldn’t make?

This is a ballsy question, so use your discretion. In the right context, though, it can let her clear the air or dispel any frustrating assumptions people make about her. Let her take this question where she wants, and don’t be too pushy.

35. If you were to patent an idea or thing, what would it be?

This question gives you major brownie points for being clever. You can see how her brain works and how clever she is, too!

36. What do you wish you were better at?

Ask her what skills she wants to acquire or hone in her career and life in general. If she’s ambitious, that can be a major turn on. It’ll also show you she’s humble and doesn’t hold herself too high if she points out some areas she wants to improve.

37. What’s been your biggest regret in life?

Like some of the other questions on this list, feel out the conversation and only ask this one if the moment feels right as it could make her feel uncomfortable. Try to slip it in to conversation if she mentions a career path she could have gone down or a trip of a lifetime she never took. Just tread lightly.

38. What would you be doing if you weren’t in your current job?

This is a twist on the “dream career” question, but will result in an answer like “lawyer” rather than “movie star.” What she went to school for may not be the field she’s in now. Likewise, what she studied in school may not be her dream career anymore. This is a fun way to pick her brain and get her talking about what her interests and passions are.

39. What did you want to be growing up?

You can use this question as a preface or follow up to No. 38. Both of you get the floor to speak about your childhood. You’ll have endless stories… chock-full of embarrassing confessions and lofty dreams.

40. What was your yearbook quote?

High school is a time of awkward stages and thinking you’re funny when you’re really not. Ask her what her yearbook quote was. If she didn’t have one, ask what it would have been, or what she would make it now?

41. What’s the worst pickup line you’ve ever heard/dished out?

The experts agree: There’s nothing wrong with getting a little flirtacious on a first date. Ask her for some of the worst pickup lines she’s heard. You’ll get some laughs and can try some cheesy ones out on one another. A little banter is a good sign that your humor is in sync.

42. What’s the last event you bought a ticket for?

If she’s going to dish out $100+ on tickets for a Broadway show, sporting event, or concert, it shows it’s important to her and something she thoroughly enjoys doing. It’s a roundabout way of seeing what her interests are in detail without straight out asking.

43. What’s your favorite childhood memory?

You want positive vibes only on a date. By posing this question, you get her thinking about some of the best times in her life. You’ll also get a peek into family traditions and dynamics.

44. Are you closer to one of your siblings?*

You’ll find out how close or far in age she is with her siblings, how many brothers and sisters she has, and how they interact with one another. If you’re big on family, this question is a must.

*Of course, this only applies if you’ve already asked about her family and she does, in fact, have more than one sibling!

45. Did you have any nicknames growing up? Now?

You’ll get her laughing with this one. Sure, it might be a little embarrassing, but the stories behind the nickname will make for perfect, light-hearted conversation.

46. What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened t

Share a funny story at your own expense first. It’ll show her you have a sense of humor and can laugh at yourself. Then, she’ll be more inclined to do the same.

47. Do you have any hidden talents?

Maybe she’s a classically trained pianist or was a champion cup stacker in her youth. When you ask the right questions—even ones as simple as this—it can unveil a goldmine of information.

48. What talent do you wish you had?

See what talents she admires. If she’s always yearning to learn something new, it shows she’s inquisitive. It can also open the idea of trying something new together—like cooking—on a second date.

49. Where can you see yourself living?

This question is more revealing than you’d think. If she has plans to move to Toronto next year, she might not be in a place in her life where a long-term relationship is feasible. Likewise, if you’re deadset on living in a city, whereas she’s dying to live on a farm, there are going to be conflicting desires that can spell disaster for a relationship.

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